How good are you? You have an answer?
Everyone has a personal life. Be it your friend (best friend, good
friend, more than a friend or whatever!), love or any relation you consider
closest, they do have a personal life. Even if you are not good in
understanding them, better accept them.
Usually there is a wrong thought that Girls feel insecure in
relationships. Might be true, but every Guy is more insecure than her girl is.
You talk hours over phone, you text the remaining time, you know her really
well and still when she talks with someone else you feel bad. You ask stupid
questions, suspect and sometimes you call all your insecurities under one roof
– Possessiveness.
Everyone is possessive – be it a guy or a girl. Possessiveness is
such a poised feel. When someone is possessive over you, you feel happy. And
when you are possessive over someone you feel bad. But, you know? Without
possessiveness you can have no successful relationships.
Every girl is grown up with the same infra you have got – a co-ed
school, some good neighbors, some good childhood friends who are boys, best friends at college and colleagues at corporate. When you can smile at your
colleague with no intentions, why can't she do the same? You don’t need to
praise womanhood to attract her and more than that no girl expects you to
praise her rather respect.
At extreme times, you think ‘Is she the only girl in the universe,
why to feel?’ and decide let her go. But in the end, it will be only you
feeling more because you have never thought of the same with any other girl. But
beware; you are not the only guy in the universe either!
More than all these, in relationships guys have a slight edge over
girls somewhere. You know where? A girl never loses respect over you, she may
never talk bad about you to any one and she may sometimes not talk to you
anymore but what she had for you remains the same. Forever – it’s a word found
only in guy’s dictionary and she may not use it. Because, once you are friend
to her – you are her friend forever.
If you are proud to say ‘I am possessive over her’, be bold enough
to accept ‘you are not you without her’. If you feel you have rights over her –
Leave out your ego, reach her and just smile – you will be friends again. Every
girl is a mother at heart.
Nice da :) whatever you mentioned over here is the real truth da !!!!!
ReplyDeleteThank You:) :)
Deletetoo Good :) :)
ReplyDelete‘you are not you without her’
ReplyDeletesema :) :)
"Every girl is a mother at heart" idhuvum :) :)
ReplyDeleteThanks again :)
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